In life, we are often told to stay within our comfort zones, to avoid risks, and to play it safe. But what if the very thing that scares you is what leads you to greatness? As someone who was labeled as "too quiet and shy" for most of my life, I’ve learned that embracing fear can be a powerful catalyst for growth and success.
Here’s my journey of doing what scared me and how it transformed my life.
Moving Away to College
The first step in my journey was moving away to college. Everyone around me doubted my ability to make it on my own, insisting that I was too quiet and shy. Despite their doubts, I packed my bags and stepped into the unknown. It was terrifying, but it was also the beginning of my transformation.
Becoming an RA
In college, I decided to challenge myself further by signing up to become a Resident Assistant (RA). Once again, people told me I wasn’t cut out for it. They said I was too quiet and shy to handle the responsibilities. In this role, I proved my leadership abilities. Being an RA taught me conflict resolution and how to step up when needed.
Leading a Student Club
Not stopping there, I took on the role of President of a student-led club. This was another step that many thought I couldn't handle. They doubted my ability to lead and inspire. But I thrived in this role, learning to communicate effectively, manage a team, and create a vision for our club.
Switching Careers
After college, I faced the daunting decision of switching careers from Counseling to Recruiting. It was a significant change, filled with uncertainty and fear. But I trusted my instincts and made the leap. Each job change (9 companies since graduating!) brought new challenges and opportunities for growth. This is a story for another day, but each switch made me more adaptable and resilient.
Pursuing an MBA
Deciding to get my MBA was another intimidating step. Balancing work, studies, and personal life was no easy feat. Yet, it was a decision that expanded my knowledge, network, and career prospects.
Starting My Business
Perhaps the scariest leap was starting my own business. Entrepreneurship is fraught with risks and unknowns. But the desire to create something of my own, to help others, and to push beyond my limits drove me to take this bold step.
Moving Away from My Hometown
Finally, moving away from my hometown was another fear-filled decision. Leaving behind familiarity and comfort to start anew is never easy. But it allowed me to grow independently and gain new perspectives.
Why You Should Embrace Fear
Through each of these experiences, I’ve learned that fear is not a barrier but a signpost pointing towards growth. Doing what scares you forces you out of your comfort zone, challenges your limits, and ultimately, makes you stronger and more resilient.
Tips for Embracing What Scares You:
Acknowledge Your Fear: Recognize that fear is a natural response to the unknown.
Take Small Steps: Start with manageable challenges and gradually take on bigger ones.
Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive people who encourage your growth.
Reflect on Your Progress: Regularly look back at how far you’ve come and celebrate your achievements.
Stay Persistent: Keep pushing forward, even when the going gets tough.

Embracing what scares you can lead to incredible growth and opportunities. My journey from a quiet and shy individual to a confident career coach and business owner is a testament to the power of stepping into fear. I encourage you to face your fears head-on and see where they take you.
Ready to Take the Leap?
If you’re ready to embrace what scares you and transform your career or business, I’m here to help. Let’s work together to turn your fears into stepping stones towards success.
Until next time, keep chasing your dreams!
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